Sunday, October 19, 2008

The Right Person at the Right Time at the Right Place

(Warning: Long Post)

That's the advice Mark's last mission president sent Mark home with.

I am soooooo glad that I waited for the right person to take me to the right place. I've thought a lot about that lately. I guess it's still weighing on my mind: how thankful I am to have Mark in my life.

A few years ago, I was in love with a guy named Richard. We talked a lot about getting married and raising a family. I went to Samoa to spend six weeks with him. I thought our future was going to be pretty great.

But....

But, his testimony was growing dimmer and dimmer. He got more and more lax about going to church. And his time was not spent in the service of the Lord, but in gratifying himself. I could also tell in his word and deed that his testimony was waning. It was disappointing.

One day, I finally took a good look at our relationship and realized his promises to get back to the temple to take me there were not going to happen. I realized he wasn't ready for me. Maybe he never would be - because he wasn't working toward that goal at all.

I broke up with him. It took me two years to get over him. He was my first love. He was a person who truly made me feel feminine and in many ways like I wanted to feel. I was excited and happy to have children with him. He treated me wonderfully. But there was no way I wanted to marry a man outside the temple, especially when I didn't know for sure if he ever would take me there.

Mark and I have talked a lot about us (Mark and me). We have talked about how good it felt (and continues to feel) that we were able to decide to get married and just call the temple up to set our sealing appointment. We talk about how great it is to go to the temple together now and be together in the Lord's house. We talk about how some day, our kids will be glad that we've tried so hard to set up the best life for them that we can.

The right person at the right time at the right place.

Mark has a friend right now who is engaged. She is so happy and in love. She is a returned missionary. Her fiance took the discussions--or some of them. But, now, he's decided that he doesn't really want anything to do with the church.

Mark is concerned about this friend, and I am too. Boy, do I know how exciting it is to be loved and to be talking about marriage. But, I also know how despairingly sad it is to know you won't be marrying that man in the temple, getting the promises of all eternity with him.

My recommendation: don't marry him. It would be miserable to be married to a man whom you love, and yet be forever uncertain about your union.

Her family is apparently supportive because they love her so much. But, they're all worried too.

Mark and I have talked about how marrying someone who doesn't want a thing to do with your religion is giving up a huge part of who you are. You won't be able to share everything fully with them. Your marriage will not be as gratifying. You're giving up on a dream you've most likely always had. You aren't fulfilling your full potential. It will most likely lead to conflict and confusion.

Anyway....

I also have another friend who got married outside the temple. But, she and her husband continue to go to church and are looking forward, with happy hearts, to the day they can go to the temple together. She tells me about who she is going to invite. She tells me about promptings she receives about their future. She tells me about how she is so glad that she waited for the right person. And for her and her husband, it was the right time due to other circumstances. The right person at the right time. Together, they're going to go to the right place.

It's rather exciting. And I'm so happy for that day when it comes for her.

Last Thursday at Young Women, I bore my testimony to the girls about this. In Mormonland, Mark and I were both older than most when we got married. But, looking back at our lives, we wouldn't have changed it. We married the right person at the right time at the right place. And both of us are so incredibly happy and satisfied that we did.

California's Proposition 8

I just viewed this and found it to be a great explanation of why the Church is so adamantly trying to get Proposition 8 passed.



Here is another video to watch which shows the problems that have occurred in Massachusetts.

Friday, October 17, 2008

Where are you now?

One of the greatest 80's movies is "The Goonies." One of the most favorite actors in that film is Chunk.

He is most famous for the Truffle Shuffle



Where is Chunk, or Jeff Cohen, today?

Here he is....

Chunk is an entertainment attorney in LA.

Crazy!!

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Political Post #2 - Our Constitutional Rights and Obligations as U.S. Citizens

I wrote this in 2006 for a Scout Troop while I was in American Samoa.

OUR CONSTITUTIONAL RIGHTS AND OBLIGATIONS AS U.S. CITIZENS
By Mark R. Hales, Esq., (former) Assistant Attorney General of American Samoa

The protection of freedoms and rights within the United States are found in the Constitution. Describing the Constitution of the United States, former lawyer, law professor, law school dean, President of Brigham Young University, and Utah Supreme Court Justice, Elder Dallin H. Oaks, a current member of the Twelve Apostles of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints stated, “The United States Constitution was the first written constitution in the world. It has served Americans well, enhancing freedom and prosperity during the changed conditions of more than 200 years. Frequently copied, it has become the United States’ most important export. After two centuries, every nation in the world, except just [a select few], has adopted written constitutions, and the U.S. Constitution was a model for each of them. No wonder modern revelation says that God established the U.S. Constitution and that it ‘should be maintained for the rights and protections of all flesh, according to just and holy principles’” (D&C 101:77).[1]

Truly, the U.S. Constitution was established “by the hands of wise men whom [the Lord] raised upon unto this very purpose” (D&C 101:80). George Washington described the formation and creation of the Constitution as “a miracle.”[2] The miraculous creation of this supreme sacred document was directed by the divine hands. President Washington proclaimed, “No people can be bound to acknowledge and adore the invisible hand which conducts the affairs of men, more than the People of the United States. Every step by which they have been distinguished by some token of providential agency. And in the important revolution just accomplished in the system of their united government, the tranquil deliberations and voluntary consent of so many distinct communities, from which the event has resulted, cannot be compared with the means by which most governments have been established, without some return of pious gratitude, along with an humble anticipation of future blessings which the past seem to presage.”[3]

James Madison similarly declared in reference to the Constitution, “It is impossible for the man of pious reflection not to perceive in it, a finger of that Almighty hand which has been so frequently and so signally extended to our relief in the critical stages of the revolution.”[4]

The supernal and inspired Constitution, along with the Bill of Rights and other Amendments protect the inherent rights of speech, press, assembly, and free exercise of religion just to name of few. It has prevented slavery, allowed women to vote, and expanded equal rights to all people. In my opinion, there are five major direct or indirect provisions of the Constitution. These included: (1) Sovereignty of the People, (2) Separation of Powers, (3) Limited Powers of Government, (4) The Principle of Representation, and (5) the need of a Moral and Righteous people.

Ezra Taft Benson, former Secretary of Agriculture under U.S. President Eisenhower and Prophet and President of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints indicated that the Constitution’s genius lies in basic, eternal principles including: (1) free agency is God-given; (2) the proper role of government is to secure the rights and freedoms of individuals; (3) basic human rights are God-given; (4) people are superior to the government they form; and, therefore, (5) governments should have only limited powers.[5]

Duties and obligations are the inseparable companions of rights. The responsibilities of those under the umbrella of the United States Constitution can most easily be described by the introduction of The Preamble of that vary document. “We, the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, ensure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution of the United States of America.”

How do we as U.S. Citizens help form a more perfect union, establish justice, ensure domestic tranquility or harmony, provide for the common defense, promote general welfare, secure blessing of liberty, and protect all other constitutional rights for ourselves, families, and others? For clearly we all do have a duty to defend it as our own personal Title of Liberty. As Albert Einstein declared, “The strength of the Constitution lies entirely in the determination of each citizen to defend it. Only if every single citizen feels duty bound to do his share in this defense are the constitutional rights secure.” Let me make just a few suggestions in what our duties are in respect to the preserving and upholding the Constitution.

We should all read and study the U.S. Constitution. We should be familiar with their specified rights, regulations, and responsibilities. Familiarity with the constitution is necessary to oppose any infringement of these inspired fundamentals.

We should be law-abiding citizens, supportive of national, state or territory, and local governments. The Church of Jesus Christ’s of Latter-day Saints 12th Article of Faith declares:

We believe in being subject to kings, presidents, rulers, and magistrates, in obeying, honoring, and sustaining the law.” In addition, the Church’s official declaration of belief states: “We believe that governments were instituted of God for the benefit of man; and that he holds men accountable for their acts in relation to them…We believe that all men are bound to sustain and uphold the respective governments in which they reside” (D&C 134:1, 5).

Most importantly, to uphold, preserve, and protect the Constitution and our constitutional rights, we must be moral and virtuous. Regarding the moral and virtue of the people of the United States, Elder Dallin H. Oaks has stated, “Those who enjoy the blessing of liberty under a divinely inspired constitution should promote morality, and they should practice what the Founding Fathers called ‘civil virtue.’”[6]

James Madison, who is known as the “Father of the Constitution,” stated there has to be “sufficient virtue among men for self-government” and that “republican government presupposes that existence of these qualities in a highest degree than any other form.” [7]He further asserted that “to suppose that any form of government will secure liberty or happiness without any virtue in the people is a chimerical idea.” [8] In addition, Madison said, “If such an immoral and uncivil day should come [to America], then this last and fairest experiment in favor of the rights of man will be turned against him.” [9]

George Washington, during his first Inaugural address declared, “Reason and experience both forbid us to expect that national morality can prevail in exclusion of religious principle.” [10]

John Adams, the second U.S. President, likewise declared, “We have no government armed with power capable of contending with human passions, unbridled by mortality and religion.” [11] Adams later declared, “Liberty can no more exist without virtue… than the body can live without a soul.” [12] He also said, “[The Constitution] was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other.” [13]

Elder Oaks echoed the opinion of the founding fathers when he declared, “It is part of our civic duty to be moral in our conduct toward all people. There is no place in responsible citizenship for dishonesty or deceit or for willful-law breaking of any kind. We believe with the author of Proverbs that ‘righteous exalteth a nation: but sin is a reproach to any people” (Prov. 14:34). The personal righteousness of citizens will strengthen a nation more than the force of its arms.” [14] Likewise, the sins of nations will tear it apart quicker than any opposing army.

In reference to the same Proverb, Samuel Adams declared, “revelation assures us that ‘righteousness exalth a nation,’ … the public liberty will not survive the total extinction of morals.” [15]

Daniel Webster likewise held, “If we, and our posterity, shall be true to the Christian religion, if we and they shall live always in the fear of God, and shall respect his commandments… we may have the highest hopes of the future fortunes of our country;…we may be sure of one thing... our country... will go on prospering and to prosper. But, if we and our posterity reject religious instruction and authority, violate the rules of eternal justice, trifle with the injunction of morality, and recklessly destroy the political constitution, which holds us together, no man can tell, how sudden a catastrophe may overwhelm us, that shall bury all our glory in profound obscurity.” [16]

Francis J. Grund (a European by birth but a keen observer of the American life in the 19th century) declared, “I consider the domestic virtue of the Americans as the principal source of all their other qualities. It acts as a promoter of industry, as a stimulus of enterprise, and as the most powerful restrainer of public vice. It reduces life to its simplest elements, and makes happiness less dependent on precarious circumstances; it ensures the proper education of children, and acts, by the force of example, on the morals of the rising generation: in short, it does more for the preservation of peace and good order, than all the laws enacted for that purpose; and is a better guarantee for the permanency of the American government, than any written instrument, the Constitution itself not excepted” or excluded. [17]

Francis J. Grund likewise declared, “No government could be established on the same principle as that of the United States, with a different code of morals. The American Constitution is remarkable for its simplicity; but it can only suffice a people habitually correct in their actions, and would be utterly inadequate to the wants of a different nation. Change the domestic habits of the Americans, their religious devotion, and their high respect for morality, and it will not be necessary to change a single letter in the Constitution in order to vary the whole form of their government. The circumstances being altered, the same causes would no longer produce the same effects; and it is more than probable, that the disparity which would then exist between the laws and the habits of those whom they are destined to govern, would not only make a different government desirable, but absolutely necessary, to preserve the nation from ruin.” [18]

The Constitution was based on principles of moral absolutes, derived from Judeo-Christian traditions of a Divine Supreme being, as set forth in the Bible - Old Testament and New Testament. In addition moral absolutes can be evidenced in environmental values, social orders, and financial methods. James Madison believed that the governance of the Constitution was based off Christian principles, including the Ten Commandments when he said, “We have staked the whole future of American civilization not upon the power of the government - far from it. We have staked the future of all of our political institutions upon the capacity of each and all of us to govern ourselves according to the Ten Commandments.” [19]

These divinely given moral absolutes include, but are not limited to the protection of life and its creation, liberty and freedom, family and the family structure, the pursuit of happiness, free exercise of religion, justice, the need of accountability, and the preservation of chastity, fidelity and morality.

Elder Oaks has further declared, “However, others deny the existence of God or deem God irrelevant to the human condition and the fabric of the creation and execution of law. Persons who accept this view deny the existence of moral absolutes. They maintain that right and wrong are relative concepts, and morality is merely a matter of personal choice or expediency,” [20] and argue that there are no such things as universal right or wrong, just good or bad arguments. With this view the existence of moral absolutes are questioned, and “the most fundamental moral questions have at least two sides, and every assertion of right or wrong is open to debate.” [21]

The rejection of moral absolutes in regards to chastity has lead to the public debate of gay marriage and abortion. As a lawyer, I see the legal reasoning and constitutional rational used to argue the need to expand equal rights in order to trump moral responsibility, but I am not willing to support their conclusions. The entire debate regarding these two controversial issues is the elimination of personal accountability associated with violations of moral absolutes under the cause of “equal rights.” The rights of sexual freedom do not trump rights of life.

Many, in their pious podiums pontificate religious support of these horrific dogmas. They argue that “Christian love” extends to the act, not just the actor. However, notwithstanding their blatant mockery of God and His divine word, this is nothing more than the use of current philosophies of man mingled with scripture to please popular society. Such is the influence of Satan by declaring the inexistence of moral responsibilities and rationalizing away the application of law to avoid the punishment of law and the condemnation of society. They declare that morals are relative to individual interpretation and that the broadest interpretation should be the standard for all, so that all actions, despite how vile it may be, can be justified under the guise of freedom and received its cherished protection.

Elder Oaks has declared the destructive results individualized interpretation of morals. “One of the consequences of shifting from moral absolutes to moral relativism in public policy is that this produces a corresponding shift of emphasis from responsibilities to rights. Responsibilities originate in moral absolutes. In contrast, rights find their origin in legal principles, which are easily manipulated by moral relativism. Sooner or later the substance of rights must depend on either the voluntary fulfillment of responsibilities or the legal enforcement of duties. When our laws or our public leaders question the existence of absolute moral values, they undercut the basis for the voluntary fulfillment of responsibilities, which is economical, and compel our society to rely more and more on the legal enforcement of rights, which is expensive.” [22]

The call or demand for equality for all sexual behavior and its subsequent lifestyles and relationships is simply a façade regarding the avoidance of personal liability for violations of moral absolutes. In the liberalistic view of today, it is simpler to seek a change in the law in the pursuit of justice then it is to accept the existence and need to comply with moral absolutes. They seek to discredit the influence of God in the Constitution in order to take sin out of the law and life in support of life styles that imitate love and the nature of humanity.

“Today, those who yell ‘I am free” are often bound by the fetters of passion, the chains of greed and the bonds of iniquity. They are at the forefront of those wanting to alter the Constitution to meet their immediate personal desires. On the one hand they want no moral restrains, and on the other hand they demand that government plan and provide for its citizens so that they are freed from personal responsibility. Their ‘freedom’ is but another band of slavery.” [23]

These arguments of “free love” destroy the need of self-mastery and restraint; however, true freedom requires self-restraint. “Freedom by law to act out one’s choices requires enormous self-restraint, for without self-discipline freedom is readily abused that external controls must be imposed to maintain order and prevent chaos.” [24] “Men are qualified for civil liberty in exact proportion to their disposition to put moral chains upon their own appetites…Society cannot exist, unless a controlling power upon will and appetite be placed somewhere; and the less of it there is within, the more there must be without. It is ordained in the eternal constitution of things, that men of intemperate minds cannot be free. Their passions forge their fetters.” [25]

Laws are the extension of humanity’s standards, beliefs, and expectations. As society’s standards become more carnal, sensual, and devilish - so too goes the laws and judicial determinations of the nation. Lifestyles and activities that were considered repulsive have steadily become socially accepted and now legally protected. The gradual decay of society through the guise of constitutional protection is described in Alexander Pope’s renowned verse.

Vice is a monster of so frightful mien,
As, to be hated, needs but to be seen;
Yet seen too oft, familiar with her face,
We first endure, then pity, then embrace.[26]

And let me add an additional verse.

Once embraced we protect it by law,
And reinforce our freedom’s fatal flaw-
That the evil can change the legal decree,
To protect that which is of depravity.

Albert E. Bowen has professed, “Freedom is not bestowed; it is achieved. It is not a gift, but a conquest. It does not abide; it must be preserved.” [27] Absolute freedom is obtained by obedience to moral principles, which in turn creates a moral self-government. Self-government involves self-control, self-discipline, an acceptance of the most unremitting obedience to correct principles. It demands commencement with its high privileges. Duties are the inseparable companions of rights. No other form of government requires so high a degree of individual mortality. This freedom’s only threat is an amoral self-government controlled by modernistic or liberalistic principles of absolute agency with no or limited consequences.

History has proven that the strength of a nation is directly proportional to morality. Nations fall when morals fall. Men become weak when they choose to live their life based on their own sexual pleasures and appetites and execute laws to support their sexual riotous lifestyles. To protect and preserve this nation we must uphold that which is most scared and holy, the divine and natural sexual relationships only between a husband and a wife. The support of any other relationship shakes the very foundation of this nation and tears the constitutional fabric to a fine thread. Frenchmen Alexis de Tocqueville described the United States’ need to be moral and good as follows: “America is great because she is good, and if America ever ceases to be good, America will cease to be great.” [28]

In addition to living and supporting moral lifestyles, we the people must be honest and true to others and the government for it is only honesty that keeps us obeying and sustaining all laws, covenants, and contracts and “is the keystone that holds any organization together.” [29] Honesty to one’s self is integrity and “is the most fundamental source of a person’s wealth.” [30]

The strength of the United States is unequivocally linked to the individual integrity and honesty of each citizen (or national). The chain of civic virtue that binds this nation is weakened each time a citizen (or national) lies, cheats, or steals. Just as the soul of man is seen in the secret silence of solitude, so is the soul of the United States evidenced in the darkest corners of society where actions, though illegal, go essentially unnoticed. Therefore, it is our duty and obligation in support of the fabric of freedom to maintain a sense of true character, even in the unseen darkness of seclusion.

The dispositive example of the often unnoticed but true character of the nation is the actions that occur when the walls of the family since the strength of this nation is utterly correlated to the success of the family. Elder M. Russell Nelson, also a current member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles has stated that “the family is the basic unit of society, of the economy, of our culture, and of our government.” [31]

Every political and government body, how great or small, is only as strong as the family unit. The principles that create, protect, and sustain a family are the same principles that create, protect, sustain, and operate all government actions and policies. The strength of this nation is not indicated by what happens in the White House, but what happens in our house. It is not what is discussed and accomplished in board rooms, but what occurs in our living rooms. Former First Lady Barbara Bush similarly declared, “Whatever the era, whatever the times, one thing will never change: Fathers and mothers, if you have children, they must come first. You must read to your children and you must hug your children and you must love your children. Your success as a family, our success as a society, depends not on what happens in the White House but on what happens inside your house.” [32]

The formation of this nation was not easy and required hard work and sacrifice. Likewise, the further maintenance of the principles of freedom requires a hard working and industrious people. The continued growth and success of the United States will only be achieved if each person exerts himself to his greatest potential; mediocrity efforts by a people produce a mediocre nation.

We must work for what we want and cannot be a people of handouts. What we obtain too cheaply we will esteem to lightly. When we as a people forget the work of the past and except the success of the future to be presented on a silver platter, all that has been obtained will be lost. To be successful as a people, and thus as a nation, we must be active in thought, word, and deed. Paul H. Dunn, in his book, The Ten Most Wanted Men declared, “Nature gave man two ends - one to sit on and one to think with - a man's success or failure depends on the one he uses most.” [33] When Americans begin to use the end to sit on more than then the end to think is a clear sign that we as a people have become complacent and no longer feel a need to work. As America sits and expects success to simply come, the process of decay takes place given that only the rolling rock gathers no moss.

To preserve our Constitutional rights we must be active in our pursuit of life, liberty, and happiness and not simply accept complacent mediocrity. Work is hard, but that is why it is necessary. Without work, we would never reach our potential. Little effort produces little growth. We must not be satisfied with being given a fish, but the knowledge to learn how to fish.

In addition, “[c]itizens should also be practitioners of civic virtue in their conduct toward government. They should ever be willing to fulfill the duties of citizenship. This includes compulsory duties like military service and the numerous voluntary actions they must take if they are to preserve the principles of limited government through self-reliance. For example, since U.S. citizens value the right of trial by jury, they must be willing to serve in juries, even those involving unsavory subject matter. Citizens who favor morality cannot leave the enforcement of moral laws [exclusively] to jurors who oppose them.” [34]

“The single word that best describes a fulfillment of the duties of civic virtue is patriotism. Citizens should be patriotic,” declared Elder Oaks. Patriotism is best described by Aladlai Stevenson: “What do we mean by patriotism in the context of our times?...A patriotism that puts country ahead of self; a patriotism which is not short, frenzied outburst of emotion, but the tranquil and steady dedication of a lifetime.” [35]

We must stand for the principles that we believe in and protect the fundamental rights in pure harmony with moral absolutes, including watching and protecting those within the minority. However, equal rights do not indicate free reign or agency to do what you want under the pretext of constitutional protection or the expansion of laws to condone activities that violate these fundamental moral absolutes. “Equal rights” is not an invitation to sin. Instead, equal rights means each of us are equally responsibility to bring ourselves to the application of these moral absolutes, for only obedience to laws provide its promised rights.

Former Apostle of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints James E. Talmage asserted, we must “stand for the Constitution and do not believe in any false notions of advancement and enlightenment and progressivism such as seeks to undermine that foundation of our liberties.” [36]

These are duties and obligations nestled into the paramount document called the Constitution of the United States of America. May we all use our hands in pursuit of that which is just and true, and protect the words of God found in these divine documents.

[1] Dallin H. Oaks, Freedom Festival, Provost, July 5, 1987 (See also Ralph C. Hanock, Just and Holy Principles, pg 138). [Hereinafter referred to as “Oaks: Freedom Festival”]
[2] Letter from Washington to Lafayette, 7 Feb. 1788 (See Just & Holy, pg. 149)
[3] See Just & Holy, ix.
[4] James Madison, Federalist Papers, Essay 37
[5] Bryon R. Merrill, Government by the Voice of the People, The Book of Mormon: Mosiah, Salvation Only [6] Through Christ, Edited by Monte S. Nyman and Charles D. Tate, FARMS 1990, page 126 (Citing Ezra Taft Benson, The Constitution: A Heavenly Banner. Salt Lake City, Deseret Book, 1986)
Oaks: Freedom Festival, (Just & Holy, pg 148)(quoting Ezra Taft Benson, The Constitution, a Heavenly Banner, pg. 23)
[7] James Madison, The Federalist, no. 55
[8] James Madison, (See Johnathan Elliot, ed. The Debates in Several State Conventions on the Adoption of the Federal Constitution, vol 2. , pg. 175 (See Just & Holy, 188
[9] James Madison (See Gaillard Hunt, Ed. The Writings of James Madison, vol.1 pg. 459-60
[10] George Washington; (See James D. Richardson, A Compilation of the Messages and Papers of the President 1789-1897, US Congress, 1899, vol. 1p. 220 See Just & Holy, 160)
[11] John Adams (John Adams, The Works of John Adams, Second President of the United States, Charles F. Adams, 1854 (Cited by L. Tom Perry, “Truth and Liberty” Speeches of the Year 1987-1988 BYU, page 27-35) (See Also Just & Holy, 161)
[12] John Adams (See Bernard Bailyn, “A Fear of Conspiracy against Liberty,” in Robert F. Berkhofer, Jr. The American Revolution, pg. 101 (See Just & Holy, 187)
[13] John Adams (Cited Robert J. Matthews, “Patterns of Apostasy in the Book of Mormon” (Helaman), pg 73 quoting by W.O. Nelson, The Character of Liberty Deseret Book, 1987); (See also John R. Howe, Jr., The Changing Political Thought of John Adams, Princeton: Princeton Univ. 1966, 185 (See See Bryon R. Merrill, Government by the Voice of the People, Mosiah, page 128)(See Just & Holy, 148)
[14] Oaks; Freedom Festival (Just & Holy, pg. 148)
[15] Letter from Samuel Adams to John Scollary of Boston, April 30, 1776 , from the Samuel Adams Papers(See Just & Holy, 187)
[16] Daniel Webster , Webster's Historical Society Address, NY: Press of the Historic Society, 1852 (See Bryon R. Merrill, Government by the Voice of the People, Mosiah, 128)
[17] The Americans, in Their Morals, Social, and Political Relations Boston: Capen and Lyon 1837, pg 71-72 Robert J. Matthew, “Patterns of Apostasy in the Book of Helaman” (Helaman), pg 74
[18] Id.
[19] James Madison; (See Russ Walton, Biblical Principles of Importance to Godly Christians, pg. 361) Quoted by M. Russell Ballard, July 5, 1992, Provo Utah Freedom Festival, (See Just & Holy, 160)
[20] Dallin H. Oaks, “Religious Values and Public Policy” (See Just & Holy, pg. 150) [Hereinafter referred to as “Oaks: Religious Values”]
[21] Oaks: Religious Values, pg.150
[22] Oaks: Religious Values, pg.151
[23] Bryon R. Merrill, Government by the Voice of the People, Mosiah, 133
[24] Bryon R. Merrill, Government by the Voice of the People, Mosiah, 118
[25] Edmund Burke (Irish political theorist), The Works of Edmund Burke, 12 vols. Boston: Little, 1901, 4:51-52 See Bryon R. Merrill, Government by the Voice of the People, Mosiah, page 118)(See also Just & Holy, 186)
[26] Alexander Pope, Essay on Man. Epistle ii. Line 217 (See also Clyde J. Williams, “Deliverance from Bondage” Mosiah, page 267)
[27] Albert E. Bowen, General Conference, April 3, 1938 (See Just & Holy, 89)
[28] Alexis de Tocqueville (French historian); See Ezra Taft Benson, God, Family, Country: Our Three Great Loyalities, Salt Lake City, Deseret Book, 1974, 360; Bryon R. Merrill, Mosiah, page 128
[29] Gordan B. Hinckley, Standing for Something, Times Books, 19
[30] Steven R. Covey, Seven Habits of Highly Successful People, 298
[31]Ensign, November (2005)
[32] To the graduates of Wellesley College, Text of Mrs. Bush's Speech, Washington Post, June 2, 1990 (Cited by James E. Faust, "A Thousand Threads of Love" Ensign, (Oct. 2005), pg 4)
[33] Dunn, Wanted, 236
[34] Oaks; Freedom Festival (Just & Holy, pg. 148)
[35] Adlai Stevenson, speech given in New York City, 27 August 1952 (Cited by Oaks; Freedom Festival (Just & Holy, pg. 148)
[36] James E. Talmage, General Conference Report Oct. 1912, (See Just & Holy, 70).

Political Post #1 - Socialism- A modern day Secret Combination

I won't be posting a lot regarding political issues, but do feel the following are important to share:

"The American people will never knowingly adopt Socialism, but under the name of 'liberalism' they will adopt every fragment of the Socialist program until one day America will be a Socialist Nation without knowing it happened." Norman M. Thomas, U.S. Socialist Party Leader

"The threat of Communism is very real. The threat of Socialism is even more real." Ezra Taft Benson, Prophet/President, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

"During the first half of the Twentieth Century, we have traveled far into the soul destroying land of Socialism." David O. McKay, Prophet/President, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

"A secret combination that seeks to overthrow the freedom in all lands, nations and countries is increasing its evil influence and control over America and the entire world." That combination is known as Socialism. Ezra Taft Benson, Prophet/President, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

"The paths we are following, if we move forward thereon, will inevitably lead us to Socialism or Communism, and these two are as like as two peas in a pod in their ultimate effect upon our liberties. We may first observe that Communism and Socialism - which we shall hereafter group together and dub Statism – cannot live with Christianity nor with any religion that postulates a creator. The slaves of Statism must know no power, no authority, no source of blessing, no God, but the State." J. Rueben Clark, First Presidency, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

"Cosmos is my God. Nature is my God.... The future society will be a totally new civilization which will synthesize the experience of Socialism and Capitalism." Mikhail Gorbachev, Secretary General, Communist Party, Leader of the USSR

"No true Latter-day Saint and no true American can be a Socialist or a Communist or support programs leading in that direction. These evil philosophies are incompatible with Mormonism, the true Gospel of Jesus Christ." Ezra Taft Benson, Prophet/President, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

"No member of this church can be true to his faith, nor can any American be loyal to his trust, while lending aid, encouragement or sympathy to any of these false philosophies, for if he does they will prove snares to his feet." David O. McKay, Prophet/President, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

"If America is destroyed, it may be by Americans who salute the flag, sing the National Anthem, march in Patriotic parades…but Americans who fail to comprehend what is required to keep our Country strong and free - Americans who have been lulled away into a false security." Ezra Taft Benson, Prophet/President, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

"If ye love wealth better than liberty, the tranquility of servitude than the animated contest of freedom - go home from us in peace! We ask not your counsels or your arms. Crouch down and lick the hands which feed you. May your chains sit lightly upon you, and may your posterity forget that you were our Countrymen!" Samuel Adams, American Patriot

"Wherefore the Lord commandeth you, when ye shall see these things come among you that ye shall awake to a sense of your awful situation, because of this secret combination which shall be among you." The Prophet Moroni, Ether 8: 23-24

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Apple Pies

Mark and I made apple pies tonight. Mark's mom brought us a bag of apples this past weekend. We don't have a good place to store them, so we knew we needed to use them before they went bad.

Considering I've never made one from scratch by myself before, I feel pretty okay about how they turned out. We gave two of them away to our neighbors, and "Booed" them.

Mark was in charge of the apples themselves. He peeled, cored, and cut them into perfect little slices.

Not the best pies I've ever tasted...but, like I said: first time.

Lunch with Old Friends

Aimee, me, Jessica, Mari, Liesl, Janet, Michelle, Nicole


Ok, we're not old, but we are "advanced." Hahaha!!! Just kidding. We're friends from our youth, some of us since kindergarten, others since junior high. We had lunch together in Draper at Bajios. It was so nice--we'll probably do it again!

Of the eleven kids "we" have, five of the kids came. Beautiful kids!

Sunday, October 12, 2008

Mark's Calling


SCOUT MASTER!!!!!


Just kidding. That's our nephew, Thayer. We went to his Eagle Court of Honor on Saturday night. We're pretty proud of him. And - many of you people here on the Wasatch Front will now have the opportunity to partake in his service. He built a bridge on the Jordan River Parkway.

GOOD JOB THAYER!

No, Mark is not Scout Master. (Mark says, "Thank goodness I'm not scout master!")

Mark is now the 2nd Counselor in the Parliament Park bishopric.

SECOND COUNSELOR!

Holy shneikies.

But, it's exciting. It's a new challenge, and something with a ton of rewards. Mark will be great. He's happy. He's glad that he can be of service.

Mark's parents came down, my parents came up. Karen (Mark's sister) and her family came, and all of my siblings and their families/spouses came. Mark's dad ordained him a High Priest, with my dad in the circle. Then the 2nd counselor in the stake presidency set him apart.

We had chili back at our house. Three pots. One mild, one medium, and one hot pot. Karen brought brownies, and Teresa (my brother's wife) brought pumpkin bars. It was good.

It was a good day.

But, just as wonderful as spending quality time with family, was having our testimonies strengthened. Personally, this whole week, I have been trying to focus on my Savior. I have felt His love. I have learned things about Him I have either forgotten or never knew. I have relearned things that I shouldn't forget. I have been humbled.



Here are Mark's thoughts....

I have had impressions for about a month that I was going to be ordained a High Priest in some type of calling, but I kept those thoughts to myself (Andrea just yelped as she saw me type this). When the Stake Executive Secretary called last week, I knew exactly what it was for, but again did not tell Andrea what I was feeling. Anyway, I am very humbled and excited for this new calling, except for being nominated to be the bishopric's spokesman. The previous 2nd counselor was so excited to get released, he gave me his keys when I came up on the stand.

It was funny to hear people wondering why the entire Stake Presidency was at the sacrament meeting. Plus, the Elder's Quorum President asked me to teach the Elder's Quorum lesson next week during Sunday School. I responded, "Um.. ask me again in an hour."

I am so thankful that so many in my family came to share in this day, and especially that my father was able to ordain me a High Priest, just like he ordained me an Elder.